I was in high school during the first part of the 1960s. I was a typical horny teenage boy living in a small town, and like most guys, I was constantly trying to get whatever I could. But ninety-nine percent of the girls I went to school with would not ‘go all the way’ until there was a ring on a finger.
Guys of my generation reacted to this sexual rejection with a combination of frustration, respect and early marriage. I got married right after I graduated from college at age 22 and had two kids by the time I was 24. That’s what happened back when horny was bottled up by Christian morality and common sense. By the way, both of my kids went on to earn PhDs and have great success because the American Dream used to be a real thing.
When I went to college in the second half of the 60s, things were beginning to change drastically, not so much where I was, but in the big cities and universities. It became the ‘Sex and the Single Girl’ era of promiscuity. Young women were told they should be equal to men and that meant achieving financial independence and sexual liberation. Many were convinced they could and should enjoy sex as much as men and in the same ways.
This was the big lie that people could be sexually ‘liberated’ with no negative consequences. The three biggest losers in this effort to overturn Christian morality were young women in general, black women in particular and gay men.
The 1960’s ‘free love’ movement quickly led to the legalization of abortion in 1973 and the termination of over 60 million lives since then. The U.S. in effect became a pagan nation which sacrifices its children on the altar of hedonism. This spiritual degeneration is the major reason American women are so unhappy today and are expressing their rage by supporting the failed policies of the Democratic Party.
A combination of promiscuity and socialism led black women to turn their backs on black men and in effect ‘marry’ the government. As a result, more than 70% of black children have no father in the home [the number was 17% in the 1950s] and little chance of success in life. But of course, the party that once supported slavery and segregation says the real problem is ‘systemic racism’ and ‘white privilege’ and convinces black people they are helpless victims who need woke white women to save them.
The feminine element of the male population of America also suffered horribly from the 1960s new moral imperative, ‘if it feels good, do it’. Gay sexual liberation in the 1970s caused the terrible HIV/AIDS pandemic that killed over 700,000 young people in the 1980s and 1990s. About 13,000 Americans still die of AIDS every year.
Over the last 60 years, the Democratic Party has been the champion of the ultra-feminine blame game of ‘racism’, ‘sexism’, ‘homophobia’, ‘xenophobia’ and now ‘transphobia’ while opposing everything that’s masculine, American and productive. It has been the party of raw emotions, hateful accusations, false promises and deliberate division.
The one and only thing Democrats have been good at is persuasion. They are the masters of using words, images and arguments to generate strong emotions and manipulate people with them. But they are terrible at the two kinds of action that improve people’s lives – problem-solving and producing something of value.
That is why Trump has devastated the Democratic Party. He is the ultimate alpha male, hyper-masculine, problem-solver who crushes everything that gets in the way of what needs to be done.
He is also the facilitator of everyone who actually wants to produce anything of genuine value. That is why he has won over the working class, small business owners and many of the titans of major corporations, most notably Elon Musk.
His masculine approach to solving America’s problems is the reason so many young men of all races have been won over by the MAGA movement. It is also the reason that ultra-feminists and their wimpy gamma male allies despise him so much out of a combination of envy and fear.
The increasing inability of the Democrats to appeal to men of all ages is demonstrated by the emerging new leadership of the party. Its being taken over by strident young women like AOC, Ilhan Omar and Jasmine Crockett. The party is making pathetic attempts to include young men but ends up with the likes of David Hogg, the pencil-necked loser whose one claim to fame is that he hid in a closet while his fellow students were being gunned down.
If you want to fully understand why the Democratic Party is doomed, take a look at California’s high speed rail project. The estimated cost of the project has exploded from 33 billion to four times that. And there is no idea when or if the rail line will ever be completed. Meanwhile the state burns and its cities degenerate into filth. Democrats are only good at making promises they can’t keep and spending the nation into ruin while obsessing about the correct way to talk about problems rather than solve them or get out of the way so people can solve their own problems.
This is the choice young people face today: productive problem-solving masculinity or toxic feminism. Many of America’s young women, especially the college ‘educated’ ones are permanently damaged. If I was a young man in my 20s today, I would go to Latin America, the Caribbean or some parts of Asia to look for a partner in life.
My first wife succumbed to the modern feminist madness, left me and her children and ended up dying an early death. For the last 34 years I’ve been married to an incredible woman from Jamaica, and I feel like the luckiest guy in the world. If I tried to list all of her wonderful qualities, it would take many pages, and I still wouldn’t be able to do her justice.
Our nation needs immigration because of the declining birthrates and loss of the American spirit of burning ambition and individual effort. The best way to do this is for young American men to go to other countries, find a wife as wonderful as mine, bring her to America and begin families.
Leave America’s troubled young women to their cats, dogs and therapists. Better yet, convince them they would be happier following women like Rosie O’Donnell and Ellen DeGeneres to Europe, Canada, Australia or New Zealand.
You take no prisoners. :)
We're in a hot mess thanks to those revolutions. You capture the trajectory into madness very well.
I'm also writing and talking about this, trying to turn it around!
https://open.substack.com/pub/dogl/p/an-ex-feminist-perspective-on-relationships?r=eo3qf&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false
https://open.substack.com/pub/dogl/p/a-requiem-for-the-patriarchy?r=eo3qf&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false